The first step towards being more confident is dressing in what ever makes you feel confident. This is the most important piece. If you don’t feel sexy, you can act sexy. Try to make an effort to talk to three people from the opposite sex everyday, you won’t believe how much more confident you will become. Even if you have low self-esteem just act like you feel good about your self. Eventually you will feel good about yourself. Personally I was very shy, I couldn’t talk to girls because of my low self-esteem. After I pushed my self to be more confident I know don’t have a problem going up to girls or anyone in general. These tricks help me and if you follow them thy will work for you too.